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Feb 25 2010

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A Socially Conscience Porn Industry – Is It Possible to Have??

xxxI decided to write this entry a few weeks ago. I have to admit I’ve written it like three times and then I always end up deleting it. The problem I have when trying to discuss the issues in porn that need addressing is the fact that those who have been working in porn any length of time already know the problems that need fixing.

One of the questions I get asked most frequently is “Was working in the porn industry always a bad experience or did I have good times as well?”. I was asked this question in my first show last night at “Desi’s Desires Live“. At that point, I still didn’t have a clear and concise way to answer it. As I laid down to sleep last night, it finally came to me. I’ll try to explain it as best as I can and hopefully it will also show how the porn industry needs to make huge changes but I won’t hold my breath that they will

In the porn industry, there is a very distinct system for how every single detail of porn is run and decided. It affects how porn will be produced and distributed. It also decides how the girls who work in porn will be treated. While not every single person in the porn industry is evil, every single person who works there goes by this same system. It’s this system that is morally and ethically corrupt. It’s this system that encourages the blatant abuse and degradation of women. It’s this system that’s ruining American’s values. And every single person that works there is using this evil and corrupt system.

I met good people while I was there. I’ve made some great friends who are still my very good friends. I worked with some good people while there. I had fun and enjoyed being around many of these people. The problem that everyone has while they work there is that they all have to work within this same corrupt system. I chose to leave and speak out against this system that damages us all by it’s actions. The problem is nobody does anything to change this. They just accept that it’s corrupt and keep going. What that does is foster encouragement for really bad behavior at the very least. What has happened inside the porn industry is that it has grown into something that’s truly evil.

You have different groups inside the industry. Those who work there and deal with the corruption by ignoring it. And then you have those who feed on the corruption and are actually working to grow it. They are the true faces of evil. Now, to talk about how to improve the industry, the ones who just accept it need to take a stand. They need to stop using the services of the evil people who are out to truly hurt people. By using this evil system, they are simply supporting that evil and by doing so they too become part of the evil. There’s just no other way to explain it.

Since I left the porn industry and started to speak out against it, I’ve been contacted by many who asked if I felt they had treated me badly. They were concerned about my feelings and didn’t want to be thought of that way. I had to explain that though they had treated me well, they were participants in the corruption by way of depraved indifference. When an agent or a producer brings a girl into the porn industry, they know full well once she gets there, she will be subjected to abuse and degradation by many others. Though they themselves may not seek to abuse her, they’ve set her up for a guaranteed damaging existence. It’s like wanting your cake and to eat it too. You can’t have one without the other. At least not in the current environment.

Producers who want to stop this behavior should not work with agencies who support it. Everyone knows what agencies are corrupt so if you don’t want to be a part of the abuse, simply stop using performers from these agencies. Agents who want to separate themselves from the abuse, should stop sending girls to producers who will chew up these girls and destroy them. Again, we all know who does what in the industry so this is an easy task to accomplish. By not choosing to use only socially conscience companies and agencies, you become part of the problem instead of becoming a part of the solution.

Then we get to the content. I was asked if I had done things in porn scenes that I didn’t want to. Of course I did was my answer. None of us wants to do porn the way that it’s done. Every single performer talks about how the porn scenes are messed up. They all talk about the abuses. They all talk about the degradation. Every single girl I know particularly hates the face shot. They all talk about the racism. They all talk about how fake it all is. If a production company wanted to be socially conscience, they’d start shooting socially conscience porn which means to get rid of these practices that everyone in porn knows is wrong.

The face shot was specifically designed to change the way men think about women. Put the girl on her knees like a servant and have a man ejaculate all over her face. There’s only one other thing in porn that’s more degrading to a woman and that’s the anal scenes that have become part of the norm. We’ve seen a huge increase in anal scenes over the past few years. Why do you think that is?? If we go back into the 90s, you’ll find that ejaculations were never on the face. You’ll find there were very few anal scenes. It was a small niche market at best. These two methods of degradation were specifically brought in to change the way men think about women. It was to change the face of American values. It’s a major part of the evil, corrupt system.

Consumers would buy socially conscience porn. Consumers would actually appreciate it. First of all, it would be something different. We all know they’re tired of the current cookie cutter video. Secondly, they would not be so ashamed to be using it. Again though, the porn industry isn’t set up to do what is good for the consumer. They really don’t care what the consumer wants. The system is set up to change American’s values. The evil in the porn industry gets off on the abuse and degradation of women. They want the whole world to degrade and devalue women. It’s what they are all about in the porn industry. They brag about how they love to use women. They don’t hide their motives at all. Their goal is to take down American values. They want us all to be as sexually depraved as they are so they can buy and sell all women and children for a living without possible repercussions. It’s about changing the way Americans think so they can get the laws changed to support their abuse of women and children. And guess what, unless we do something to change this, they are succeeding in doing exactly what I’m saying. Just look at the Supreme Court’s decision to let them!!

So, to answer the question about good and bad times in the industry, it’s not about any individual time I had. It’s about what I learned about the system. What I might have thought was okay became very much not okay when I understood the meaning behind them. It’s what is lacking in American’s education of porn. You see sex but what is really there is the porn industries system of instilling abuse, degradation and slavery of women back into a society that has fought so hard against it. Now that I understand what they are portraying and how they get together to laugh about what they’re getting away with, I feel violated like I was raped. Now that they have my content, the same people who shot it call me a filthy and nasty porn whore. They built me up with compliments and praise to get that content and now they degrade and defile me every chance that they get. What I thought was empowering me as a sexual woman, they have turned into a degrading and disgusting behavior. It’s like being raped and not knowing it. You see the guy bragging to his friends on the internet after you’ve slept with him. He’s laughing about how he had fucked and used you when you thought that he had really liked you. Producers and agents in the porn industry destroy the girls in porn this way and I know for fact that they do because they tried to destroy me this way!!!

We can say there’s corruption in every industry in our country but our government fights against that corruption through laws and regulation. While it may still exist in these industries, it is beat down by the means employees have to speak out against abuse and find justice. In porn, corruption runs rampant. There’s no one enforcing basic laws that are already on the books. And there needs to be more regulations about the behavior and safety of porn. Ejaculating on the face is an extremely high risk sexual activity. The sinus cavities and eyes are directly connected to the brain. They need to be using condoms since no one can be trusted with the testing. Until the porn industry is forced to make changes to stop their criminal activities and high risk behaviors, the ENTIRE industry will continue to be corrupt and evil.  For those who continue use this corrupt system, they are subject to the same scrutiny as those who are pushing it. You can’t have it both ways. If you want to be considered any differently, make the decision to change things by building a new system that supports and promotes healthy and empowering sexual behavior in America. That’s what I thought porn was when I first started working there. Then I started to pay attention and I realized the truth was drastically different.

This is the only way that you can get to the place of producing socially conscience porn. If you continue to use the corrupt system, you’re saying you want to corrupt all of America!!

Specific Actions You Can Take to Shoot Socially Conscience Porn:

Allow testing from any medically accredited laboratory.

Stop shooting face shots. Ejaculate on the breasts, stomach or butt only.

Stop shooting anal porn. It is damaging in too many ways.

Let performers use condoms and don’t discriminate against them if they choose to.

Only hire from agencies that represent the girls properly (currently World Modeling is the only agency that follows ALL the rules).

Only send performers to producers that treat the girls with respect and won’t try to have sex with them once they get them to the set location.

Pay the girls directly for their work taking out the agents commission and paying only that directly to the agent.

Don’t advocate, push or support escorting in any fashion. It’s illegal, simple as that!!

Agents can’t perform in scenes with performers they represent. This is so blatantly wrong.

Show sex as real sex. Not 3-8 minutes in 4 positions the exact same way every time. You say the consumers want fresh content, give it to them through creativity.

Stop showing girls as submissive. Stop showing them as sex slaves. Empower them in scenes. Show them choosing a guy to sleep with because he treats her well instead of by being a jerk.

Show true intimacy in the sex. If girls do oral on guys, guys should do oral on girls. Let kissing be a big part of the scene. Show intimacy and romance instead of whores who love to get fucked. Stop rough sex and let performers have sex at their own pace.

Make females performers look like college age or older. Stop the junior high look. Stop promoting pedophilia.

Stop shooting all incestuous based scenes. Whether it’s fake or not is not the issue. It sends a wrong message to the consumers.

Stop racial stereotype casting. All blacks are not thugs, drug dealers and ignorant. Show black men as strong and intelligent. You know, there are college and business men who are black!!

Stop using the terms whore, slut, bitch, fuck hole, etc. in your story lines. You stopped using them in the videos. It should be the same rules for all written material as well.

Only shoot women who are 21 or older so they are more mature and able to make the decision to do porn for a living.

Stop promising work to a performer only if she will sleep with you. Hire performers based on talent and looks not on what you can get from her sexually.

Stop promoting pornstars by making them act like stupid and crazy girls. Let them show the world they have brains. We know that most of them do!!

Start giving performers a royalty on their work. Stop ripping off their websites and content. Start helping them build fair and equitable websites where they get a true 50% of the revenues. Let them have creative control.

Make a visitor to your website prove they are over 18 in order to see anything hardcore.

These are just a few suggestions that would prove you’re serious about being a socially conscience porn production company, agent, agency and recruiter. You know what needs to be done. JUST DO IT!!

 

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